last night's debut party !

yah! ye heard it ? Sunday, 28th day of December 2008, 7pm. t'was ate Mau's 18th natal day. After such time and now here it is. It's been 18 years and finally she's in a legal age. haha. (LOL) or maybe a LADY now. 18th birthday only happened once in one's life. Others did things to make it pretty cool, unforgettable, and fun, while others just don't want to make it special. But well, the most important thing is you're happy even without a party. You're contented with just a small celebration with fam, relatives and friends. That was good enough for you to feel it's special.
The last night party was just so cool that everyone enjoyed. I wasn't supposed to attend the said party but (tala) insisted. Tala is the youger sister of te Mau and at the same time my close friend now in college and a classmate. Being unprepared, I'm late and yeaa. seems 'em just a so-what called stranger.Look what I had worn. [2 girls(up)the one wearing blue jacket] haha! cheap noh? When I was about to enter the gate of Le Jardin Arnevel, I felt so ashamed. Guess I was the only one who joined without that casual dress! *epal ih* haha ! nakashorts pa ku ih, tapos nkajacket. haha! But well, they said "that's okay" haha! so feel comfy then. the venue was so cute, the designs and ice carving. Minuites passed, then eating was then next. *eat eat eat* with a background band.
After dinner, the party started at dun nagsimula ang mas nakakahiya. I was intended to be one of the 18 candles instead 'coz some were not there. It was so ugh! nakakahiya. I was in stage and yea. hindi ako nakacasual. urgh! waaa. parang gusto ko ng umuwi .. but well, still it ended with a laugh. The last person with a candle was Tala and she just get so emotional that she'd cried in the stage. For a reason na inaaway daw siya ng ate niya. haha. (LOL) that was the first time I saw her crying.
Next thing was the 18 roses, then the 18 shotsfollowed by the 18 treasures. Then the party ended. That's how'd the cool party done. I was advised to spend my night here in there house. (matatag) kapal noh? and yeaa, em typing here. sa pc nila, harhar, XD

whengkx <3>

share ..

Just wanna share this edited pic. I got this pic from my sis's new account in fs. It looks good and I appreciate the person who did this. This was edited from her friend, maybe her suitor? haha! LOL. whatever. My sister is a fresh grad nursing student and already took the board exam last month.Well, hope she'll pass.

wheng <3

SOON TO BE ...

Lately, I decided to change my URL. Actually I've been planning to change it since the first week of having this blog. Just an info, I would like to inform y'all that http://whengtutx01.blogspot.com won't be workin' anymore .. instead of http://whengtutx01.blogspot.com, it'll be http://herthoughts.blogspot.com .. after this Christmas season, I'll be using the new URL. la lang, feel ku lang., haha!

anyway, lemme share you what happened this day ..
december 18, 2o08 is the day, it's our last day, and the christmas vacation is about to come! For my thursday sched, I have 3 subjects and we had our quiz! the quiz for trigo , the unexpected quiz from IT 123, and PGS2. ohmy! that was too harsh. haha! lol. but well, maybe we're just too lucky to passed on time. We don't know if we really got the correct answer in IT. In our trigo, I only got 15 over 20. (wew ;x) while in PGS2.. hmm, t'was not bad. We just intended to wrote "What's the essence of Yuletide Season". haha!
The last day was not that sad. My classmates were too busy for the swimming plan for this saturday and so we were. Our group wasn't supposed to join but they insisted. haha. they're too busy also inviting our teachers
The day just ended with a smile on our face. laughing, and giggling. neaaha! XD

a last year great summer experience ..

I'd like to share the great summer experience. haha! lol.

This story happened last year back when I was a senior student. It was summer break so all of my family decided to spend the summer break in the province where my grandparents lived.

My expectations were high as our province is one of the quiet good destinations. Despite being unfamiliar with a lot of things in province, my excitement grew as we approach the road or maybe the zigzag and dusty road through lola's place. From what I had seen so far, it should be a great summer.

So you could just imagine my disappointment when I saw my grandma's house. It was a typical “bahay kubo” with nipa as roof, wall, door and windows. One of my biggest disappointments was the fact that there was no electricity. Fortunately, my cousin had just explain that at that time, they already had an electricity in there place. Growing up in Gensan, a part of my life had been spent in front of the TV or even listening to the radio.

That first night, everyone was preparing to go to sleep. They were unrolling the straw mat on the floor when they heard a noise. They're all laughing only to find out it was just a noise of our aunts, and uncles laughing outside.

When I was taking a peek outside, it was really dark. I felt goosebumps as the noise aside from my relatives were approaching my mind. With the full moon illuminating the humans (relatives) outside, I saw someone just too far from them but I'm not that sure what it was. To my surprise, I never expected to bring in mat what I had just seen that time. I was trying to do such things to forget all of it. I've tried to give some time on the messages left unread instead.

My mother woke me up early in the morning to start my day and feed some for my tummy. After an hour, my brother made a plan. He's an adventure-seeker; he's always looking for something extraordinary to while away his time. So, he brought us in a river 'sapa' just near in my cousin's house. Bringing a digicam, we toke some post there (but unfortunately, I haven't got one *sorry*) The river however was quiet cool for it has the clean water running softly. We decided to take our bath there and having a great time with the whole family.

The second day was still good but don't you know what's the great thing happened? Its when everyone decided to bought fruits "rambutan and lanzones" in a so what called place 'ewan' .. haha. lol. One thing's for sure, t'was too far from our place. Me and my brother's wife was intended to buy the said fruits. It was really too far and we never expected to meet our way like urgh! Seems we're not in this world! We'd meet a river, a zigzag road, a dusty place or even the place unknown. haha. lol. It was an unexpected thing happened. My bro's wife felt so curious where we had been, even me ! hahaha. It was really unfamiliar place for us that’s why maybe we left conscious and tired. Well atleast, it's worth it. We'd buy half sack of the 2 fruits.

Darkness fall and everyone was tired. the next day would be the day we'll go home. So everyone decided to sleep as early as 8pm.

The next morning, we're too busy doing things, packed our things and even the fruits we'd bought. Bye bye lola then. haha. Lola was smiling as we gave her a packed of cigarretes "tabacco" and a small amount Oh by the way, I guess the first day or maybe the second day was Lola's birthday. (kalimutan ku na ih, haha.) that's it! We enjoyed the vacation with a smile.

wheng <3

what push me to blog ?

Writing is an expression of one's emotion. Actually, I couldn't explain why I'm here. It was just that someone caught my attention and that was not important to know who that person is. When I saw his work, or maybe his blog. I felt something I couldn’t explain. haha. lol. Until such time, a question comes next. "What if I'll make one?" then that's it! I found myself too childish. I'm curious on how to be a good blogger but later, I just learned something from others. I'm so happy that somehow, I've been doing things which I never prefer to do before and it's a new thing now. It's a great thing and obviously I enjoyed and love it. ♥

Kung hindi ko lang nakita yung blog nea? Maybe I couldn't have possibly made a blog. I really don't know why I'm here but the thing is, it's good. I had lots of ideas now. I could share things. Explore and meet new people by doing crazy things, haha. lol. and syempre blogging. People might have seen theirselves unhappy but I tell you. Just a click on this site, you'll find it interesting. Maybe people also wondering where the interest could have come from, the blogger could have the reasons where or why. Maybe some, they just love to share. Fortunately, I was just influenced by someone and that's a good reason for me to smile every now and then. Hope he'd visit and appreciate also my works? haha. *asa!*

I share, I explore and I'll try my best to post certain things! *wink*
-- thanks to those who were always there, reading and updating my eiww blog. ahaha. lol.

wheng <3

A REAL BOYFRiEND ..

-- Another thing, again I red this from fs. haha! lol. *try mou basahin*

Read this till the end...

> When a girl walks away from you - [Follow her]

> When she stares at your lips - [Kiss her]

> When she pushes you or hits you - [Grab her and don’t let go]

> When she starts cursing at you - [Kiss her and tell her you love her]

> When she's quiet - [Ask her what’s wrong]

> When she ignores you - [Give her your attention]

> When she pulls away - [Pull her back]

> When she pulls away - [Pull her back]

> When you see her start crying - [Just hold her and don’t say a word]

> When you see her walking - [Sneak up and hug her waist from behind]

> When she's scared - [Protect her]

> When she lays her head on your shoulder - [Tilt her head up and kiss her]

> When she steals your favorite hat - [Let her keep it and sleep with it for a night]

> When she teases you - [Tease her back and make her laugh]

> When she doesn’t answer for a long time - [reassure her that everything is okay]

> When she looks at you with doubt - [Back yourself up with the TRUTH]

> When she say's that she likes you - [she really does more than you could understand]

> When she grabs at your hands - [Hold hers and play with her fingers]

> When she bumps into you - [bump into her back and make her laugh]

> When she tells you a secret - [keep it safe and untold]

> When she looks at you in your eyes - [don’t look away until she does]

> WHEN SHE MISSES YOU - [SHES HURTING INSIDE]

> When you break her heart - [the pain NEVER really goes away]

> When she says its over - [she STILL wants you to be hers]

> Stay on the phone with her even if she’s not saying anything.

> DON'T let her have the last word.

> NEVER call her hot! Pretty and beautiful is sooooo much better.

> Say you love her more than she could ever love you.

> Argue that she is the best girl ever.

> When she's mad hug her tight and don't let go.

> When she says she's ok, don’t believe it, talk to her.

> When she says she's sorry, she truly means it.

> Call her at 12:00am on her birthday to tell her you love her.

> Call her before you sleep and after you wake up.

> Treat her like she's all that matters to you.

> Tease her and let her tease you back.

> Stay up all night with her when she's sick.

> Watch her favorite movie with her or her favorite show even if you think its stupid.

> Give her the world.

> Let her wear your clothes.

> When she's bored and sad, hang out with her.

> Let her know she's important.

> Kiss her in the pouring rain.

> When she runs up at you crying, the first thing you say is;"Who's ass am I kicking today baby?"


--- OMG ! that was really a good boyfriend. Where are you ? haha. 'em here. XD that was awesome. I love it! *sana mei guy pang ganean at sana mei guy din na nagbabasa netong post na 'to*

TiRED ..

‘em so tired from a debut party! it was fun though. I enjoy the company with my old friends, hs friends rather. I felt so happy. Unexpected things happened, but the expected person wasn't there. haha. lol. Anyway, still it was fun. Playing games, dances. haha! (parang bata ih) When I was there, I was a bit shy. Actually I wasn't supposed to be there but the group 'CAELZiEMYFERiLLE' insisted me. "NAKAKAHiYA" haha. My gift was just a simple and small stuff wit a bon o bon suave xocoletx, and a letter. I really don't know how to explain but I'm just unprepared. I didn't buy anything but well, she still appreciated. I felt saved from 'kahihiyan'. She also says she's still happy 'coz atleast my presence was there. *ktouch* haha. That's it. Got to go now. I'm tired and need to rest now. Early pa mass tom. XD

31 Ways To Make a Girl Smile .. (=

I was quiet confuse about this. I recieved this from a bulletin in fs. I red and yah! it's soo sweet. woot! when do I feel this ? tomorrow? next month? next year? ahaha. lol. whatever! ----->

1. Dont hug her friends or your friends that are girls cause she'll feel left out.

2. Hold her hand at any moment . . . even if its just for a second.

3. Hug her from behind.

4. Leave her voice messages to wake up.

5. Wrestle with her

6. Don't go hang out with your ex when shes not with you, you might not realize how badly it hurts her.

7. If you're talking to another girl, when you're done talking, walk over and
hug her and kiss her.... let her know she's yours and they aren't.

8. Write her notes or call her just to say "hi"..and not just at night after you've already been out with other girls.

9. Introduce her to your friends . . . as your girlfriend.

10. Play with her hair.

11. Pick her up

12. Get upset if another guy touches her and she doesn't like it.

13. Make her laugh, if you can make her laugh, you can make her do anything.

14. Let her fall asleep in your arms.

15. If she's mad at you, kiss her.

16. If you care about her, then tell her.

17. Every guy should give their girl 3 things: a stuffed animal(she'll hug it every time she goes to sleep), jewelry (she'll treasure it forever), and one of his t-shirts (she'll most likely wear it to bed).

18. Treat her the same around your friends as you do when you're alone.

19. Look her in the eyes and smile.

20. Hang out with her on weekends.

21. Kiss her in the rain.

22. Kiss her just for the heck of it.

23. If your listening to music, let her listen too.

24. Remember her birthday and get her something, even if its simple and inexpensive, it came from YOU. it means all the world to HER. it's the thought that counts.

25. When she gives you a present on your birthday, Christmas, or just whenever, take it and tell her you love it, even if you don't (it'll make her happy.)

26. Always call her when you say you will, it may not seem like it, but it does hurt her and makes her think you don't care so call even if you can only talk for a minute. Girls don't necessarily have to have hour-long conversations every night but its nice for us to hear your voice even for a quick hello.

27. Give her what she wants.

28. Recognize the small things . . . they usually mean the most.

29. Tell her shes beautiful, she needs to know her striving is working.

30. Hang out with her whenever you are free and u should be free to hang with your girlfriend all the time.

31. If u care about her...SHOW her!
*soo sweet, woot!* xp

what's the difference between CLOSE friend and BEST friend ?

What was really the difference of close friend and best friend? Well, for me? I guess the difference of the two was that 'CLOSE FRiENDS' was just your close friends. haha. lol. Maybe you can share secrets but not totally the confidential secrets unlike 'BEST FRiENDS', they're the one who may be the trust-worthy person that gives you the influenced to share the secrets, confidential or not. If I were to compare the two relationships, maybe it was quiet the same but different functions. Close friends maybe were just there if you need them (any reactions? haha. sariling words) BUT best friend was always there no matter what even if you don't need them, they'd time to be with you even he/she's too busy, they know more about YOU! You can only tell if what your relationship with the person is iF you know the person's attitude. Maybe you can treat that person as a special friend, close friend or best friend. Basically there's no such difference between the two, it was just that they have a self function. But who cares? Most important is you have them, they have you! Your friends and you shared moments together.
Actually, I posted this 'coz I just want to share the feelings I have. I'm not that happy with a friend. She's one of my close friends. We're three and she's different! I can't tell more about her but she's just so urgh! Seems she don't care what people treated her, she's kind’ a weird and flirt. *sorry for this* but it was true. She had lots of boys in her life that we can't really understand why we always tried to be updated. Maybe 'coz of the respect we had for her. She's oust! We really don't know what to do, we've always understands. Now, we're on a process of plastic!
n u might red this. Sorry but we're disappointed. As what happened, we really don't know what to say nor what to do. You're there, we can't do anything. We've always say this, say that but seems you just DON'T CARE! *bhala ka*


[calm, ahaa]

LiFE iS SO UNFAiR! YES SO UNFAiR ..

Why life is so unfair? Because maybe life was just so unfair! haha . lol. Why do a lot of people suffering from a deep depreciation? Why there are poor? Why selected? Why advantages? Why happiness? There are lots of things to mention why life is so unfair! There are no better masters than poverty and want. Why do people seem uncared for others who are in need? They seemed to be bastard, selfish and uncared beings. Why helped and support, why give and forget? *left unanswered* It is impossible to stand still in this life. We are either climbing upward or slipping backward, that's the reality. People may fail anytime. Real happiness is so simple that most people do not recognize, they'll use it in a way they should. A person makes their life miserable, why don't be happy. Why sadness still exist? They say each dawn is a new beginning, but when and where to begin if those who are in high never gave importance and mercy to those who are in below? -- Selfishness. They ought to find certain things only for their selves. How unfair life brings us! Remember, we lived for our goodness. Maybe life was just like this. Life is a Challenge so dare it. It is a Game, and then we'd play for it. Understanding so let's comprehend and LiFE is Faith so believe it!

wheng <3

suitor's ..

What about suitors? haha .. [; this has been the girl's topic when I was in the comfort room. What were suitors really purpose? What are they trying to motivate? Do they deserve to be noticed? Guys can only answer those questions. Sometimes, the day would be instrumental on what they intended to do that day, but sometimes it's just as bad as it is. They we're having a hard time just to prove that they love her, blah blah. But one thing I learned from our group session last semester was prove doesn't really important in a relationship because prove only meant selfishness and unloved. Sister shared that if you really loved that person or if you're really inloved, there's no such things for you to find prove. You just feel it and that's it! As a girl, maybe we just want to make it sure that guys do serious about their intentions. When someone courted me? Call it crazy or what, my security and curiosity couldn't be swayed just like that. Fortunately, I'm right. They just ended it. Don't know what's the main reason but some, they're tired of waiting, mostly. haha. How unrespectful they are. haha. (tama ba? toink) But that's what they'd been. Some guys won't take no for an answer, that's why they left basted. harhar,. XD I really don't trust guys now, not totally but the experience I had makes me do. I still manage to be a good person, haha. lol. I'm not that interested anymore. I had been busy for school works and own affairs that completely forgot to think guys and that's a good reason for me not to think them. haha. *sama*
-- Guys be gentle worth words. Be who you are and don't too harsh on things. Love can wait and only time will tell. Just wait, in fact it's worth waiting for. You know what's bothering' me right now? haha. Well, just want to take this opportunity to share this line.
"The weird thing about you was you act as if you're willing, you're interested but is really don't care at all. We're not toys to play for" be good, boy. Remember 'karma' still strikes. weee. XD


[ala po aku pinapatamaan, sa matamaan lan. haha. lol]

wheng <3

BEiNG A STUDENT ..

Being a student has a lot of work. Students should attend meetings, assemblies, and school activities. They also need to follow the rules and regulations. This is the reason why students feel unhappy though there's a lot of things to be happy with. How tiring my day is. I only have 2 subjects this day but still, I'm tired. It's a cold Tuesday and maybe that's one of the reasons that make us fell tired. I was supposed to go home early but sad to say, we have to attend a meeting. (All CET first year student) I felt unhappy then after knowing the said meeting. The rain didn't stop and that makes our day so boring like argh ! I didn't expect this would be my day, I can't help it. BUT even though we're a bit lonely, we still manage to smile 'coz of them. Again and again, the group of cutie's in school. K F M R. ugh! *giggle* haha. Thank god He never let us feels unhappy all day long. We’re not so near from them. weee! =)) "I look baby pa naman" with a sequence in my hair. haha! lol. I'm tired yet relieved.

wheng <3

- mindanao state university -

while the other group were too busy practicin' for their folkdance. i was looking for a place to shot of. when i saw the two girls, i decided to take them a shot while walking going to the said school. never did editing 'coz guess it's for the better ! it looks good nman. [;

we made a whole comics. consists of 4 parts and we decided to draw somethin' weird. haha. lol. the story was kind'a interesting enough to read for. XD "THE WHO?!" niahaha ...

wheng <3